Nathalie Tomada – The Philippine Superstar
February 18, 2022 | 12: 00am
It’s the adore month and nothing could maybe maybe also very well be extra becoming a time to learn how relationships protect mighty and closing long. From continuously talking, whether or no longer in loyal occasions and sinful occasions, to setting apart the internal most lifestyles from the general public lifestyles, these TV and track celebrities provide a watch into how they create their marriages work, as gleaned from our interviews.
John Prats (7 years married to actress Isabel Oli): “You talk continuously, every time you’re down or satisfied. The scenario rin kasi generally, whenever you’re satisfied, it is seemingly you’ll maybe maybe doubtless also talk but whenever you contain a scenario, it is seemingly you’ll maybe maybe doubtless no longer. You might maybe maybe also fair restful exert extra effort to focus on, especially whenever you contain a scenario, because that’s the model to form issues, you talk, you compromise and assemble the action appropriate after. You assemble the hassle after. And so a long way, it’s been working for the each of us.
“Siguro din could maybe maybe also fair mga couples, there’s a contest? With me and Liv, there’s no opponents. Our roles are very particular, I’ll present for them and she’ll rob loyal care of the household and us. So, that’s why ang ganda ng dynamics naming dalawa. And we continuously place God at the guts of our relationship. That’s why we know our relationship is mighty… I’m very grateful to contain a accomplice love her, I couldn’t quiz for added.”
Carmina Villarroel (9 years married to actor Zoren Legaspi): “Thank God wala naman kaming pinagdaanan (marital problems). Yun lang, it’s correct his pag-mo-motor and pagbibisikleta but I correct order I in truth want to tackle it (because) I don’t want to pause him, that’s his happiness. If he’s no longer satisfied, he’s no longer going to be satisfied at home.
“So, working out nalang and respect. Siguro isa yun (sa mga) key substances to a lasting relationship because given na yun dapat meron kayong pagmamahal at tiwala sa isa’t isa. Dapat kasama din diyan ang respeto. And for certain, prayers. Yun talaga ang magbubuklod sa inyong dalawa mag-asawa — ang dasal talaga. So lalo ngayon na naka-lock-in pa ako, hindi ko alam saan siya (Zoren) nagpupunta. But my prayer is he’ll be stable because God is continuously with him. Walang patid ang prayers ko na sana lagi siyang gabayan. That’s my final prayer.”
Rachelle Ann Hotfoot (3 years married to businessman Martin Spies): “Each day is an adjustment. Kumbaga ngayon, we’re adjusting to programs on how to tackle Lukas. How assemble we discover time to convey time with every other, na kaming dalawa lang? We contain now to prioritize the wedding. Delight in certain, there’s a little one, but marriage is very important that it must be solid for you to be the most productive of us. As a accomplice, wala akong marereklamo, he’s very form, very patient, especially siguro sa mga moms maiintindihan, pag-wala kang tulog, mainit ulo mo talaga… Within the midst of first few months (after giving delivery) zombie mode talaga, autopilot, but Martin has been very supportive, regardless of I want, he’ll give it to me — time to sleep, time to rob a bath for an hour and time to exit with your mates, ako lang yung ayaw, I don’t wanna be a long way from Lukas.”
Yeng Constantino (7 years married to musician Victor Asuncion): “Me and my husband, hindi po siya good kung paano kami nagkakilala, or how we modified into collectively. Our background is Christian, so dapat (you) delivery as chums first. But generally the Lord will rob you to a advantageous memoir. So with us, we contain been collectively for seven years and after we survey encourage, parang sinasabi namin ng asawa ko, grabe yung first two years of our marriage. It used to be so exhausting, we in truth didn’t know every other. It used to be a risk that we took…
“I’ve proud, I’ve grown so great as a person, as a girl, kasi ang dami naming variations na talagang nahasa kami sa isa’t isa. I discovered respect and what it in truth diagram within the context of husband and accomplice. And to listen to and to wait and see and him besides, to wait and see with me and with my articulate. And now, sobrang matured na namin mag-asawa at nung anniversary namin, napaka-straightforward lang. We went tenting and there contain been no flowers, no cake, walang something. I was with my tropa… and we had a barbecue and correct talked… I feel that’s the (reflection) of maturity in our relationship. I’ve happy and I’ve satisfied. I’m no longer taking a survey for something extravagant… Yung talaga ang importante sa pagmamahal, yung kayong dalawa. So, I feel nandun na kami sa degree ng asawa ko.”
Michael V (28 years married to flight attendant-grew to become-producer Carol Bunagan): “We’re no longer supreme. It’s no longer that we don’t strive against. Nagtatalo pa rin kami. We restful argue. But there’s continuously something bigger than the each of us. More continuously than no longer, yun nalang iniisip namin. Ang daming tao na could maybe maybe also fair mas malalaking problema, mas malaki yung iniintindi nila. Would maybe well ibang tao nga, yung paghinga lang, yung one big breath, malaking bagay na sa kanila tapos magtatalo pa kami? Napaka-petty para sa mga blessings na natatanggap namin.”
Julius Babao (18 years married to TV host Christine Bersola): “Rather a couple of marriages… could maybe maybe also fair opponents with the couple. Minsan, ‘pag nagiging successful yung babae, na-i-insecure yung lalake, di ba? Medyo nag-aaway sila on yarn of that. It’s recognizing what would create your accomplice satisfied. Hindi lang yung puro ikaw. Kinakailangan i-respect mo yung magiging happiness ng accomplice mo, and it is important to know the boundaries of one one more’s endurance. If feeling mo nagagalit na yung accomplice mo, ‘wag mo na sabayan. Yun ang natutunan ko dito eh. ‘Pag galit na ang asawa ko, atras na ako ng konti, ayoko na makipag-debate, because whenever you debate hahaba pa eh. There’ll likely be a time for talking about points that could maybe maybe also fair restful be resolved. But to switch head on at that very moment na galit ang bawat isa sa inyo, it won’t encourage. It’s better to contain a damage for a while and talk after.
“Plus, for certain, allot time for your kids and household, hindi puro trabaho lang kasi baka at the pause of the day, magulat ka nalang ang dami ng problema ang di mo nalalaman, napapansin at di mo na maayos kasi lumala na ang problemang iyon. So, it’s in truth giving time — overtime to your household. I’d continuously contain dinners with my household. Weekends are sacred, we want to be collectively continuously.”
Gloc-9 (17 years married to expertise manager Thea Pollisco): “Bigger than something, I imagine magkaibang bagay yan (career and internal most lifestyles)… I’m a extraordinarily non-public person. Hindi mo makikita nilalagay ko anak ko sa social media at hindi ko hahayaan yung ibang tao mag-comment ng hindi maganda sa aking non-public lifestyles. I feel that’s what’s important to me. When it comes to non-public lifestyles, yan talaga ang iniingatan ko. Presumably I’m in a position to non-public if big superstar or artista ka, but that’s my stand — my household and non-public lifestyles could maybe maybe also fair restful stay non-public. And it’s a decision. I don’t imagine, ‘Oh, I discovered the supreme person.’ It’s a fixed and wide awake risk to be the supreme person.”